Talk to someone else about this, tell them about your family and see what they can do, I'm saddened by how many young gay teens still get stuck in ignorant families. The sat fact is the statistics of gay teens who get kicked out, I'm sorry it's like that. You can date someone and keep it as far from your bigoted family as you possible can, Like I always say. "It's not lying if they make you lie. If the only truth they can accept is their own." ^_^